Seeking Peace
In Romans 12:9-21 Paul, sets before us the duty of a Christian person. What a world it would be if these precepts were carried out, if even every Christian was careful to observe them. The apostle mentions six features which should characterize our relationships when dealing with others. Paul refers to sincerity, discrimination towards others, generosity, sympathy, humility and peacefulnessPaul then gives this command in verse 18:
| If it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone. (Romans12:18) |
As Christians the peace we seek is not just absence of conflict but a deep sense of harmony and mutual goodwill This peace that we are to seek does not ignore our differences as individuals but we need to seek to overcome them through understanding, grace and patience.
Paul realises that in order for us to live in peace with everyone we need to understand that human relationships are complex and sometimes peace might not be attained due to actions and attitudes of others.
We are therefore encouraged not to give up on peace. Even if it seems difficult, we must persevere. We are called to do everything in our power to promote peace. In this instance, Paul emphasises taking personal responsibility. We should take the initiative to forgive, to reconcile, and to avoid unnecessary conflict. It means being willing to let go of pride, grudges, and offenses for the sake of peace.
How do we do that?
May I suggest that we need to be proactive in seeking and making peace. Apologize when necessary and offer forgiveness when it's needed. Be intentional about pursuing peace. Control your responses. While you can't control how others act, you can control how you respond. Avoid escalating conflicts and strive to respond in love, even when provoked.
We need to recognize our limits. Understand that peace is not always possible. Some relationships may never fully reconcile, and some conflicts may not be resolved in this life. In these cases, trust God's justice and sovereignty, and maintain a heart of grace.
Our goal as followers of Christ is to strive for peace, to reflect His love in every interaction, and to trust that God will ultimately bring justice and reconciliation in His time.
Peace begins with each of us. As we strive to live peacefully with others, we become reflections of God's love and ambassadors of the Prince of Peace
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Bukelwa Hans is married to Howard and blessed with 4 children and 10 grandchildren. She is a retired minister in the Central Cape Presbytery.
